Isolation is bullies target a person by treating them as an unwelcome outcast in society. I believe this type of bullying is self damaging that can affect its victim drastically. The reason why is because the victim may suffer from self dept This form of bullying is a part of emotional bullying because a emotional bully exclude their victim by leaving them out of activities,not inform them about work, any information to do(school) or even spread rumors about the target.
The target begin to believe that no one is interested in their thoughts or feeling and being to feel withdrawn. A person who is isolated in a long period of time they will begin to have poor social qualities. Alienation will cause its victim to not be able to have good social skills by shyness,insecurities and psychological problems. Loss of interest in fun activities will be one of the major symptoms because a person can be isolated for so long that they do not even care. This can lead to depression because the victim will not experience any happiness in a setting will begin to feel like the odd ball.
If the victim begin to get bullied(highschool) if they do not have real loyal friends they will most likely be isolated. Those so called "friends" begin to get full of themselves turn their backs on their once friend(victim) simply because they do not want to be the next target.
(http://blogs.longwood.edu/jenawebster/2012/03/06/social-alienation)
Wednesday, April 29, 2015
Thursday, April 23, 2015
In this video, this is a girl named amanda todd. She was bullied to the point she successfully took her own precious life away. She experienced all 4 types of bullying which are exclusion, cyber, verbal and physical. A young girl who could've achieved all her dreams due to one minor mistake in front of her fake friends. She was on a video chat with her friends laughing and talking just usual things till things esculated. Her and her friends start playing truth or dare and she was dared to show her breast. So amanda decided to do so which ruined her reputation and self worth. Her friends took a picture of her flashing them and passed it all around the internet which increased the bullying.; People start calling her a whore, slut and all kinds of bad names which I thought was not right. She was young and we all made foolish mistakes at one point of our lives. She did not deserve to be treated in that manner because she was a teenager just starting highschool. It is sad the fact that she took her own life away from her family who really loved her. I wish she spoke to her mom more about it and got homeschooled and avoided social media and lived on with her life in peace. REST IN PEACE AMANDA TODD.
Lizzie Velaquez
In this video, a woman named Lizzie Velasquez was bullied on youtube and all over the internet. She was born with a disability of not being able to gain much weight. During the time of this cruel cyber bullying, she was a teenager in high school casually scrolling through youtube. Then she spot a video of her child appearance on Maury at age 11 years old describing her illness, This video on youtube got over 1 million views and it was titled the "Ugliest Woman in the World!".
You thought things could get worst that over a 1 million people viewed the video targeting her. She read the comments the viewers was directing towards her appearance saying that she shouldve killed herself...she need to die...etc. We all at a young age especially being a teenager confidence is really important. Teens do not need a person or group of people telling them they are not good enough or they are ugly. They will begin to feel self doubt and low self confidence. This is what happened to Lizzie Velasquez after she seen all the negative comments on that youtube video. No one said one nice thing about her so she turned it in to something optimistic. She created a book that is a documentary about her life called, "A Brave Heart".
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
Sexual interests bullying ( vic versa)
In this video it displays the sexual interest bullying discrimination towards heterosexuals. In this video clip shows if the world didnt accept heterosexual relationships and only wanted homosexuals relationships.This allow the viewers to understand how it feels to be hated because of your sexually
In this video called "Strain" found on Youtube displays highschool bullying including all three major bullying types which are physical,verbal, emotion. The emotional bully is the victim best friend because she did not stand by her. She was suppose to be her friend but texting and giving body the group of 'belse she was not cool with her at all even though she was helping her during the drastic time of her mother sickness. This portrays betrayal and weakness within the victim fake companion. The victim boyfriend was her only real friend in high school. The gang leader of the woof pack is the source of the bullying in the video calling the poor girl a "Slut" while she was with her boyfriend. When the woof pack jumped the her she felt as if she was ready to give up on life.Of course, the emotional bully who wanted to fit in instead of standing up for her friend(victim). I know the vicitm was extremely scarred emotionally because of the feeling of being taken for granted and used as a temporary object that is convenient during a bad time can be really painful.
I have a connection with this video because I been jumped before and bullied by a group of girls so I can understand the victim commiting suicide. In the tenth grade when the boy punched me I felt the same way and the people who I thought was my friends did not stand by me at all. All that stress and finding out the people who I used to be around conjured up inside of me with shame, insecure and depression.
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
Emotional bullying
Emotional bullying can happen anywhere from playground, school or even adult workplaces/relationships. Emotional bullying symptom is name calling, mocking,ganging up on others, put down or belittle, lying on someone, humiliate others etc. A person who is a victim of emotional abuse most times personally know his/ or her abuser. This abuser may pretend to be a companion just to gain enough personal information from their victim. This is a form of a mosquito draining the victim for its blood because the information given may be too embarrassing for strangers to hear.
Exclusion is one of the most harmful symptoms that can lead to deep depression and self exclusion.
A person may be socially awkward due to being shunned for a long time. The feeling of being ignored and different can lead its victim feeling self inadequate.
Emotional bullying affect the victim by their emotions begin to feel humiliation, shame,guilt, embarrassment and fear. Also, poor academic performance/job performance, extreme shyness or threaten/attempted suicide. The victim begin to be obsessed with their bully by not achieving the right goals due to the damage of focusing on the bullies antics(every move). In many cases, the victim may be fearful of their bully so they be watching their own back just in case the bully wont bother them anymore.
http://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/emotional-psychological-abuse/emotional-bullying-and-how-to-deal-with-an-emotional-bully/
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