Wednesday, May 20, 2015

All forms of bullying




   
     No one likes a bully bullies are uncool and lame. Who wants to even associate with a bully? Bully is a form of oppression towards an individual or group. Bullying happens when a person is not accepted in an area or intentionally intimidate someone. The three major types of bullying is physical,verbal and emotional.
    Physical bullying occur when a person is being physically attacked by one or a group of people. The signs a person is a victim of physical bullying is really crucial and can lead to depression. The symptoms are kicking,punching,slapping,pinching,hair pulling,strangling etc. Any form of aggressive action towards a person is a sign of physical bullying;especially if the victim is not engaging in the bully(s) actions.
     Verbal bullying happens when a person is speaking rude things towards a person. Verbal bullying towards a person can be more hurtful than physical bullying.Verbal bullying occurs when a person is mentally self saddened because a person or group said mean things to them. The symptoms of a verbal bully is by commenting insults, name calling,making fun of ideas/behaviors or
     Emotional bullying happens when a person is being bullied by a phony companion(hint:Friend). This occurs when the bully knows the victim personally. The sympthoms of an emotional bully is name calling,rumor spreading,isolation and ruining relationships. This affects the victim by allowing them to feel more insecure and self hate. The victim will experience resentful thoughts wishing they have never allowed the bully to enter their personal lives. All three of these major forms of bullying are known very well in todays society.

Monday, May 4, 2015

How to Handle a Workplace Bully





As we can see in this video youth bullying is not the only type of bullying.In this video, "How to handle a workplace bully" give advice to their audience what to do while dealing with a workplace bully. The workplace bully may try to dominate their victim by repeatingly trying to over power them by stealing their completed assignments or even destroying them.

Friday, May 1, 2015

Sexual Bullying


The form of sexual bullying is a form of harrassmen. Sexual bullying is when a bully expliot sexual rumors, domestic relationship, sexual interests, Sexual bullying can occur to anyone at any age even if they are a adult at a workplace. The  symptoms of this type of bullying a person can be doing sexual comments,inappropriately touching unwillingly,sending nudes or exploiting the victim personal nudes/text messages. The victim is most likely not enjoying the person sexual comments about the way how they dress/appearance is so attractive . This bully will do anything to get your attention by purposely touching inappropriate places in the victims bully without the victim approval.
      Sexual bullying does not just happen in just females, it happens to males too. A female can approach a male who is not even interested or he can get exposed or exploited on the internet just the same as a female. But when a female get exposed on the internet it iscompletely no morality. The reason why is because sexual bullying is a form of misanthrope. The reason why sexual bullying is a form of male chavinist is becauuse when a female get exploited on the internet about her sexual a
This form of bullying occur withn teenages and youth daily. The main cause is cyberbullying due toi the easy access of technology in the present day such as smartphones,iphones, tabletes etc.













http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/guys/harassment.html

What is Physical Bullying?











   Physical bullying is rarely the first form of bullying that the target will experience. This form of bullying occurs within people of all ages.The bullies uses their body as their main weapon which doin g this awful antics. The symptoms of this form of bullying is shoving,mugging,kicking,punching,gripping up,jumping etc. The victim will be
      The main reason why bullies do physical bullying is because they know they know they can defeat their victim. It can be because they're either is in a gang/woofpack which will cause the victim to be fearful and not be able to defend theirselves. Physical bullying does not only happen aggressively, it can happen to a victim personal belonging. The bullies will take the victims prized possessions not because they want it. It will simply be because they enjoy seeing the victim enjoying something.The bullies will even destroy their victims prized possession. This prized possession can be a phone,assignment papers,pocket book,bookbag etc.
   The affects that physical bullying may have on its victim is that the victim may be fearful to stand up for themselves, deep depression, anxiety problems or trouble sleeping. The victim can begin to feel worthless and powerless because they start blaming theirselves for the bully antics. There should be no reason for a victim of physical bullying to feel withdrawn with themsleves by excusing the bully.
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p://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/physical-bullying.html

Cyber Bullying






This form of bullying takes place towards its victim behind a keyboard on the internet. Most of us seen lifetime movies portraying this form of bullying which is most likely to lead to suicide. This form of bullying occurs when a person social image is ruined due to the sharing or posting of personal information or pictures that is not approved by the victim. For example, if a person trust a friend by telling them many of their embarrassing information so this "friend" decide to post this information all over social media. Imagine how embarrassing the victim may feel if their so called "companion" ridiculed him/or her in front of the entire world. The victim may suffer from anxiety,over thinking,confusion and deep depression because of the way the bullies are targeting.
   A victim of cyber bullying can be targeted for their appearance,social status or personal info being violated.Imagine a person(victim) who did not approve someone(the bully) to snap a picture of them in the middle of class in high school.So this bully decides to post this picture on social media having all his or her friends judging the victim about his or her appearance.
 The affects of this form of bullying towards the victm is that the victim may feel ugly,worthless,unvaluable or suffer from extreme depression/insecurity.









http://nobullying.com/bullying-suicide-statistics/

Self Motivation






http://www.bopandtigerbeat.com/2012/07/exclusive-rachel-crow-spills-mean-girls-details/
In this video, "Mean Girls" is giving self motivation which is sung by Rachel Crow. This song and video is very powerful because I been bullied before and I felt really bad when people bothered me just like other victims of bullying. Bullying is really a horrible experience to go through because it is a life changing experience due to the isolation,verbal,emotional,physical etc. I feel like this bullying video takes place in highschool which can even happen in elementary school. It displays the disapproval from a group of people towards a person because of their differential qualities. In a scene in the video Rachel Crow wore a b

Verbal Bullying



Verbal bullying is a form of bullying that involve only the use of words. This type of bullying is as damaging as the physical form of bullying. Verbal bullying can occur at school,workplaces,playground or just anywhere. This form occurs when the bully's victim is targeted by the spread of personal information/lies are told about them to everyone. Also, a person can be targeted as ugly, fat,weird,looser,queer etc. These are some the of the most painful words that can be directed towards



http://www.bullying.co.uk/general-advice/verbal-bullying/

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Isolation

Isolation is bullies target a person by treating them as an unwelcome outcast in society. I believe this type of bullying is self damaging that can affect its victim drastically. The reason why is because the victim may suffer from self dept  This form of bullying is a part of emotional bullying because a emotional bully exclude their victim by leaving them out of activities,not inform them about work, any information to do(school) or even spread rumors about the target.
The target begin to believe that no one is interested in their thoughts or feeling and being to feel withdrawn. A person who is isolated in a long period of time they will begin to have poor social qualities. Alienation will cause its victim to not be able to have good social skills by shyness,insecurities and psychological problems. Loss of interest in fun activities will be one of the major symptoms because a person can be isolated for so long that they do not even care. This can lead to depression because the victim will not experience any happiness in a setting will begin to feel like the odd ball.
If the victim begin to get bullied(highschool) if they do not have real loyal friends they will most likely be isolated. Those so called "friends" begin to get full of themselves turn their backs on their once friend(victim) simply because they do not want to be the next target.
(http://blogs.longwood.edu/jenawebster/2012/03/06/social-alienation)

Thursday, April 23, 2015




In this video, this is a girl named amanda todd. She was bullied to the point she successfully took her own precious life away. She experienced all 4 types of bullying which are exclusion, cyber, verbal and physical. A young girl who could've achieved all her dreams due to one minor mistake in front of her fake friends. She was on a video chat with her friends laughing and talking just usual things till things esculated. Her and her friends start playing truth or dare and she was dared to show her breast. So amanda decided to do so which ruined her reputation and self worth. Her friends took a picture of her flashing them and passed it all around the internet which increased the bullying.; People start calling her a whore, slut and all kinds of bad names which I thought was not right. She was young and we all made foolish mistakes at one point of our lives. She did not deserve to be treated in that manner because she was a teenager just starting highschool. It is sad the fact that she took her own life away from her family who really loved her. I wish she spoke to her mom more about it and got homeschooled and avoided social media and lived on with her life in peace. REST IN PEACE AMANDA TODD.

Lizzie Velaquez




In this video, a woman named Lizzie Velasquez was bullied on youtube and all over the internet. She was born with a disability of not being able to gain much weight. During the time of this cruel cyber bullying, she was a teenager in high school casually scrolling through youtube. Then she spot a video of her child appearance on Maury at age 11 years old describing her illness, This video on youtube got over 1 million views and it was titled the "Ugliest Woman in the World!".
You thought things could get worst that over a 1 million people viewed the video targeting her. She read the comments the viewers was directing towards her appearance saying that she shouldve killed herself...she need to die...etc. We all at a young age especially being a teenager confidence is really important. Teens do not need a person or group of people telling them they are not good enough or they are ugly. They will begin to feel self doubt and low self confidence. This is what happened to Lizzie Velasquez after she seen all the negative comments on that youtube video. No one said one nice thing about her so she turned it in to something optimistic. She created a book that is a documentary about her life called, "A Brave Heart".

Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Sexual interests bullying ( vic versa)



In this video it displays the sexual interest bullying discrimination towards heterosexuals. In this video clip shows if the world didnt accept heterosexual relationships and only wanted homosexuals relationships.This allow the viewers to understand how it feels to be hated because of your sexually


In this video called "Strain" found on Youtube displays highschool bullying including all three major bullying types which are physical,verbal, emotion. The emotional bully is the victim best friend because she did not stand by her. She was suppose to be her friend but texting and giving body  the group of 'belse she was not cool with her at all even though she was helping her during the drastic time of her mother sickness. This portrays betrayal and weakness within the victim fake companion. The victim boyfriend was her only real friend in high school. The gang leader of the woof pack is the source of the bullying in the video calling the poor girl a "Slut" while she was with her boyfriend. When the woof pack jumped the her she felt as if she was ready to give up on life.Of course, the emotional bully who wanted to fit in instead of standing up for her friend(victim). I know the vicitm was extremely scarred emotionally because of the feeling of being taken for granted and used as a temporary object that is convenient during a bad time can be really painful.
I have a connection with this video because I been jumped before and bullied by a group of girls so I can understand the victim commiting suicide. In the tenth grade when the boy punched me I felt the same way and the people who I thought was my friends did not stand by me at all. All that stress and finding out the people who I used to be around conjured up inside of me with shame, insecure and depression.

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Emotional bullying



Emotional bullying can happen anywhere from playground, school or even adult workplaces/relationships. Emotional bullying symptom is name calling, mocking,ganging up on others, put down or belittle, lying on someone, humiliate others etc. A person who is a victim of emotional abuse most times personally know his/ or her abuser. This abuser may pretend to be a companion just to gain enough personal information from their victim. This is a form of a mosquito draining the victim for its blood because the information given may be too embarrassing for strangers to hear.
Exclusion is one of the most harmful symptoms that can lead to deep depression and self exclusion.
A person may be socially awkward due to being shunned for a long time. The feeling of being ignored and different can lead its victim feeling self inadequate.

Emotional bullying affect the victim by their emotions begin to feel humiliation, shame,guilt, embarrassment and fear. Also, poor academic performance/job performance, extreme shyness or threaten/attempted suicide. The victim begin to be obsessed with their bully by not achieving the right goals due to the damage of focusing on the bullies antics(every move). In many cases, the victim may be fearful of their bully so they be watching their own back just in case the bully wont bother them anymore.










http://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/emotional-psychological-abuse/emotional-bullying-and-how-to-deal-with-an-emotional-bully/